S.Jayalaxmi
An example of a woman defying all patriarchy in the 20th century was my Pāṭi (grandmother). If I can summarize from all the stories I've heard from Pāṭi, it is that strong independent compassionate women are unforgettable and leave a lasting impression across several generations. Having lived through Primary School plus an additional few years of high school and university with her and away from my parents, my Pāṭi was not just my baby sitter for my working parents. She was my teacher, the google(probably a better one) to my curiosity and a well-read, well-informed guide to lead me onto things I seemingly liked (music being one). The bond I shared with her is what motivates me to pen further with stories that I heard straight from her until a month before her demise. I must confess, it is hard to listen to some of the hardship stories with a straight face. Worst, when recounted so nonchalantly by the person who has been at the centre of it. In the early 20th century post World War...